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A problem page letter
Agony aunt letters
Strict parents
My parents are very strict. They don't let me go out with my friends in the evenings or accept invitations to parties or discos. They say my friends are irresponsible, but they've never met my friends. I don't know what they are afraid of.
I can go out on Saturday afternoon, but only if my cousin comes with me. I love my parents, but they don't understand that I'm 16. I need to have some independence -- I feel like I'm in prison. What should I do?
Write two paragraphs explaining a problem you have and asking for advice.
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ResponderEliminarI have a big problem . Tomorrow is my best friend's birthday but my mother isn’t in town , that's why I'm at my grandparents' house . My mother told me to stay and take care of them and not leave home , but , my best friend's birthday is very important. What can I do?
ResponderEliminarIf I escape and they catch me I will be punished for a long time , although I can get the game right. I would also have to buy her a birthday present. All are problems ... I hope my mother doesn’t come back sooner than expected . What would you do in my place?
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ResponderEliminarHey guys ,I have many problems, some more serious and others milder, but the one I am going to talk about today is my problem with sugar.
ResponderEliminarMy problem is not that I'm intolerant or anything like that, my problem is I'm practically addicted to sugar-rich foods; For example: jelly beans, industrial pastries, juices, energy drinks etc ... This type of food is not good for my body and less if I hope to improve in calisthenics, since I lower physical performance. Also in period of exams I am more stressed and I consume more. What should I do ?
In the first place, you should avoid eat all the energy foods that come to your head,Whoever you shouldn't buy these. And you shouldn't stop to entraining.
EliminarYou should do different types of exercise everyday to forget the sugar. Although it seems joke I think you should do push-up when you want to drink something with sugar, to create little by little hate when you want eat some things with sugar.
Last but not least you should change fruit for sugary foods when you finish training.
My problem is that I started very badly at school this year. Now I'm in fourth grade, I've always been a guy with good grades and quite studious and from first to third only in second I suspended two subjects.
ResponderEliminarWhenever I came back from school I studied and reviewed every day and now I do not do that. I'm getting sick in these first evaluations, I only approve two of eight subjects and everything is the fault of the games. How can I raise the second quarter? I'm still as participative in class but I need help.
Dear José Manuel.
EliminarIn the first place, you will have to study as always, but you will have to have a student to study and turn off everything that can distract like the game or the cell phone.
You should every time two hours take a fifteen minute break you are already eating or playing something. The only way to pass is to study without distractions but with not very long breaks. Always study at least two days before an exam, when you will study decide until part saber. After another day study what you lack and ready.
I hope my advice will help you.
Good luck!
For the problem of Jose Manuel, I would advise that since there are few days to finish the course, I would pay much more attention in all classes, I do not say not pay attention, and also review every day the subjects in the afternoon, for when the exam arrives, it will be easier to study.
EliminarAt the end of the day, you have to have an organization according to your life inside and outside the institution so that you do not stay behind in studies and always be happy and agree with what you do.
I HOPE THAT IT WILL SERVE YOU OF SOMETHING MY COUNCIL.
I am a person who likes to buy things, I am always thinking that I can buy to spend money, my mother tells me that I am a wasteful person and that I do not save money, but I can not help it if I see something that I like have it for now.
ResponderEliminarI think I have a big problem and I would like to learn how to save money but I have no idea how to make it. I think saving would be very good for my future but I do not know how to start. Could you give me some advice?
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EliminarDear Nerea.
EliminarIf I were you I would keep all the money they gave you to spend or buy things and another way to save is to tell your mother that you are saving and you do not have enough money, and so she will help you with half and so you only need half of money.
You should have a constant effort and eliminate all unnecessary expenses.
I hope my advice will help you.
Good luck!
My problem is that I am addicted to video games and puzzles I do not see it as a problem but it is because it takes away a lot of time to do other tasks such as homework.
ResponderEliminarI think that this problem can lead me to have the difficulty to do jobs that need a lot of concentration. Can someone help me with this problem?
Dear Raúl:
EliminarI think having addictions to something especially in video games often happens a lot with people our age. If I were you, I would ask for help from people in my family, because who better than your family to help you.
I think you should ask for help from your closest relatives to help you a bit in that problem, for example hiding in one place the video games and puzzles, and when you notice that you want to play I advise you to listen to music, go for a walk or play with a ball.
I am a very undecided person, I would like to study kindergarten and nursing, and I do not know why to decide, on the one hand I love children to teach them things and on the other I like to take care of people who are sick.
ResponderEliminarThat is why I would like to ask you for advice, which of the two would suit me or have more options for my future.
dear marina
EliminarIf I were you, I would be a daycare teacher because today there are many nurses and I think that I should be a nursery teacher because you do not have to study as much as to be a nurse and you will always have a future for every day there are more people working and they need to stay with his kids
I hope this advice has helped you.
Good luck
Dear Marina
EliminarI am reading about your problem , but I don’t consider it to be so serious because you have time to think .
If I were you it would take me one afternoon to make a list of advantages and disadvantages of each job but do not get carried away by people , because that will be your job .
I'm sure if you follow my advice it will help you a lot but you should follow your heart, you must choose the work of your dreams so that it costs you less to work .
You have the opportunity to choose, don’t waste it .I hope you have served, write me if you have any questions .
Dear Ana.
EliminarI have read your advice and it seemed like a good idea to make the list of advantages and disadvantages, I will take it as I also think it will help me to choose.
I agree with you in letting me go with my heart being a future more bearable job chosen from what I like the most.
Two of my best friends fight many times because I think they both have the same character. Each one calls me to tell me his version and I am always an intermediary between the two of them, without knowing who to agree with because I see that they are unimportant things.
ResponderEliminarI already tell them that they have been friends for many years, that most of the problems they are discussing do not matter, but they always fall into the same. What can I do to finish convincing them that little by little things are moving away from each other?
I have a problem. My Friends have always been to Olivares but I had a problem with my best Friends and I got angry with them and I haven´t talked to them again.I met new Friends but they were from Benacazón but my father doesn´t want to take me because he´s working this weekend is the birthday of one of them, what can I do?
ResponderEliminarIf I escape, how can I get to benacazón? And who lends me the money for the gift? I'm trying to change the opinion of my mother and she changes her mind, but if not, I will ask the money to my grandparents. I hope that my parents do not know , what you would do in my place?
I do not know what to do, if I buy a big or small hookah, since both have the same price. The big one is easier when passing the hose between the group of friends who are smoking it, but when it comes to transporting it due to its size it is somewhat more uncomfortable, however the small one due to its size is very easy to transport, clean, but his hose is special for that hookah and is smaller therefore more uncomfortable is its use
ResponderEliminarIf I bought the small one, it would be transported more easily and if I bought the big one, its use would be more comfortable. Which one do I buy? Could any of you help me?
SOFIA TORRES GELO 4ºB
I do not want to go!
ResponderEliminarA few days ago, my parents told me that we would have to move to another country for work reasons. But I do not want to leave, since I have all my friends here.
I have tried to convince my parents to stay with my grandparents, but my parents say that they can not care for a 16-year-old girl. I do not know what to do to avoid having to leave, what do you advise me?
CLARA MARIA TORRES DEL VALLE
My advice to you would be that you give your parents reasons to leave you at your grandparents' house, as the responsible person you are, the worker and you can also take care of your grandparents, they would be benefits in reality.
EliminarEncourage your parents to see that you are a pretty reliable, responsible and mature girl for your age and you will stay with your grandparents and much more, I hope you serve my advice, greetings.
SOFIA TORRES GELO 4ºB
INDEPENDENCE
ResponderEliminarI have a real problem. I have just turned into eighteen and I want to become independent. I have received two scholarships so I have much money saved. The problem is that if I become independent I will have to pay rent of the house, electricity, water, food and other personal expenses and I have not a job, so I will spend all my money.
On the other hand, I must tell that I am not very comfortable in my house because many people live there and I have not enough space for myself. I also have a little sister who is continuously shouting and crying so I can not be concentrated to do my homework or study.
What should I do?
Jesús Vázquez González
Hello Jesus;
EliminarI have seen your problem and I think I can give you some advice. I know that when you reach 18 you want to leave home, but there are advantages and disadvantages. You have money saved, but what if that money is spent? Having no work is also bad since you do not get money to pay your expenses.
You're not comfortable at home, but I think you have to put up with a bit more until you get a job. When you are earning money, you will be able to become independent. You have been able to endure these 18 years, nothing happens that you endure a little more until you find a job. I hope it has helped you.
CLARA MARÍA TORRES DEL VALLE 4ºB
Next week I do six months with my boyfriend. He’s a very nice person and always support me. When I have a problem he’s always helping me. Nobody had ever make me feel so good. The problem is that two months ago, a friend start to talk to me.
ResponderEliminarI know this friend since he was in his second year of high school. I'm confused because I'm falling in love with him but at the same time I don’t want to lose my boyfriend. What should I do?
The other Day I was reading about people problems, and after a while, I read one that actually broke my heart, and that was yours.
EliminarWhen I read your problem, I started to think a good way to solute it and I had an idea. You must meet each boy, and choose the one who you feel better with,the one who takes care of you, the one who knows who you really are and love you with all your problems and advantages and the one who makes you feel better. Maybe, the one you choose, could end with your depressive attitude. I hope I'd help you my friend.
Daniel García Martín.
I am a very shameful person. I always get nervous when I have to speak in public or when I talk with a girl. As well I am wrong when I speak and I sweat my hands.
ResponderEliminarI need help, because I think this problem will affect me in the future when I am looking for a job. So I should lose this shame sooner. As well I think this problem is very difficult to fix.
Would someone know how to help me? Because I don't what to do.
In the first place, to overcome the shame I would recommend self-esteem improvement workshops, this would help you when you have to expose in public because you already have more confidence.
EliminarAnd for the sweat problem of the hands, if I were you, I would do relaxation techniques since that is a symptom of nerves, if seeing that with that is not solved, I would have to go to the doctor because it is another problem.
In the first place you should know that a person is shameful with others because he does not feel confident, so what you should do is be the way you always are, you do not have to be different with others, for fear of rejection
EliminarTo get a job, you must have confidence in yourself first thing, but also show security, being sure of yourself generates confidence to others. Above all remember this phrase (worry less and live more)
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EliminarDear Alejandro:
EliminarI have read your problem and I think I know what you can do. In the first place, you should know that you are a shameful people because you have not enough trust in yourself. You should believe more in yourself, so you can improve it raising your self-esteem. If I were you I would set myself in front of the mirror and I would start to talk. This is going to do you see yourself and have more security in yourself.
Another thing you could do is take care of your position, that is, when you are talking to somebody or in public and you are moving your hands, it shows insecurity. If you have your hands in your pockets, it shows prepotency, so be careful with your posture, it can help you get a job.
I hope my advice has served you.
JESÚS VÁZQUEZ GONZÁLEZ 4ºB
I have a problem, the basketball season is running out and some of my teammates and I,
ResponderEliminarthe next season, we go up in category due to our age.
The problem is that in the following season there is no team for our category and
I am considering doing something else.
what should I do?
julio dominguez dorado 4ºB
I would like to ask for advice about a problem I have had for some years. I started playing football about 5 years ago, and at that time I wanted to improve a lot so every day I spent the afternoon on the football field practicing and practicing, and at first everything went very well, the problem came later.
ResponderEliminarOver time I've been taking that habit, and although I do not go every day, I go 4-6 days a week, and I spend all afternoon and part of the night there. The problem is that this addiction makes me lose time to socialize with family and friends, it also takes away a lot of study time, even if I try to study, my body needs to go out and play. I have so much addiction to playing football that when I do not go I start to find bad, with headache and fatigue, so I'm going to be forced to go. I hope to find a solution soon and someone can help me with it.
Daniel García Martín